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8 vital tips for starting a new job

Posted by Beverly Jones on March 24, 2015

 To launch a new job

you need a good plan

Are you looking forward to your first day in a different job? Or maybe you’re preparing to welcome a new colleague?

My worst first day at work was 30 years ago, but I still remember it vividly. I was a few years out of law school and shifting to a new firm in the nation’s capital. The title on my business card read “partner,” instead of “associate,” in deference to the clients I was able to bring along with me.

Well in advance, I caught up with all my own client activities. On the day, I arrived in a new suit, with an empty briefcase, eager to make a good impression in the Washington office of this Virginia firm. But the attorneys who had interviewed me all were out of the office that day, and nobody else seemed pleased to meet me.

Being prepared can help you quickly feel welcome (image by thinglass via Fotolia)

I found my way to the most senior Washington partner and introduced myself. Before quickly dismissing me he said, “At the interviews they all thought you were so great, but frankly I don’t see it. You’re going to have to prove yourself before anybody here gives you work.”

The first friendly word was from the kind firm administrator, who took me to lunch and warned me about a few things. She told me that there had been controversy over my title. And she hinted that, in this male-dominated firm, both attorneys and support staff would need some time to get used to the idea of working with a woman lawyer.

The cool welcome was a challenge, but the most uncomfortable part of the day was that I had absolutely nothing to do. This was back before there was a web to surf, and I struggled to look busy. Instead of hustling over the weekend to finish my client work, I should have prepared a long list of things to do.

That night, I called my father, holding back tears. Thinking to cheer me up, he described his experience with new jobs: “The first day is always the worst day. The first week is always the worst week. The first month is the worst month. And the first year is the worst year.”

I don’t buy into the pessimism embedded in Dad’s view of new jobs. But in that case he was prophetic. In successive days, weeks, months and years my life in the firm continued to improve, and I soon felt fully accepted. But things got better partly because I learned a critical lesson. I went to work on my second day with a plan of how I would keep busy, and I never again assumed that the firm leaders would carry the responsibility for my success.

These days I find it hard to imagine even a law firm making so little effort on employee orientation. Often, in a process human resource experts call “onboarding,” organizations develop elaborate plans to assure that a new hire can quickly get to know key insiders and stakeholders, learn about performance expectations, and become familiar with the culture. Leaders may work hard to help recruits get a feel for the environment and develop realistic expectations about their roles.

But even when you’re supported by onboarding pros, at the start of a new job it makes sense to have your own plan. And whether you are joining a new company or changing slots in the same outfit, you can ease your entry into a new position by focusing on basic principles of workplace success:

  1. Learn what your boss wants. Perhaps at the start your boss will be vague about what she needs from you. Of course, you should ask about your expected deliverables and the best way to report on your progress. But don’t count on clear, complete answers. Do some detective work as well. Notice how your boss interacts with her other direct reports, what she typically wants to know, and how she sends information up the line. Get a sense of what she must do in order to be successful, and look for ways to help. Study the organization’s mission and consider how your contribution — and hers — fit within the big picture.
  2. Get to know people. When managers and professionals run into trouble with new positions or projects it’s generally not because they don’t have the technical skills. They are more likely to fail because they misunderstand the culture or don’t establish working relationships with the right people. During your first months be methodical as you reach out to teammates, customers and anybody else with information to share.
  3. Listen and learn. When you meet individuals and attend meetings, ask questions and actively listen to each new person. Resist the urge to talk about yourself and your successes in the old job. Keep an open mind, avoid offering criticism before you understand the history, and be cautious about choosing sides among warring factions.
  4. Set short-term goals. As you start to feel that your feet are on the ground, create realistic objectives for your first few months, then for the first year. Reconfirm your understanding of your boss’s expectations, focus on areas that seem to be high priority, and identify some relatively easy near-term achievements. Don’t try to do everything at once, but identify specific preliminary steps — like introductory meetings — to move you in the right direction.
  5. Do what you say you will. One of the worst ways to start out is to create a trail of broken promises. Deliver on every commitment you make, no matter how small. For example, if you offer to make a phone call or send along information, do so immediately.
  6. Be on time. A simple way to demonstrate respect and enthusiasm is to meet all deadlines and show up on time for every meeting and appointment. This can be more challenging than usual if you’re following a different schedule and in an unfamiliar environment. But it’s worth the extra effort.
  7. Adjust your attitude. It’s not unusual to experience a letdown soon after you start your job. Once you are beyond the excitement of the move, you may realize that not everything is meeting your expectations. If you get the feeling that the honeymoon is over, it will be time to make an important choice. You can give in to your disappointment and become preoccupied with how they’ve let you down. Or you can choose to focus on the positive aspects of your situation and commit yourself to doing what it takes to reach your goals.
  8. Manage stress. Recognize that the process of adjusting to your new assignment will involve moments of uncertainty, which can translate into a high level of stress. Have a plan for managing anxiety, and be sure to include a fitness program. You may feel like you have no time to work out, but that’s shortsighted. The time you spend on keeping your cool and boosting your energy is an investment in success.

It’s more common than it used to be to have an onboarding program and first year roadmap. But even if that’s the case, keep your personal objectives in mind as well. Ask yourself: what do I need to do to get off to a great start? And what are the next steps?

 

Filed Under: Career management, career resilience, career success, First day at work Tagged With: career transitions, new job

If you’re wondering “what’s next?”

Posted by Beverly Jones on April 10, 2014

Ready for a career shift?

Read Kerry Hannon’s tips.

 Are you thinking about a launching a new career, but don’t know where to start?  Then here’s good news.  Acclaimed journalist Kerry Hannon has just released a revised paperback edition of her book, “What’s Next? – Finding Your Passion and Your Dream Job in Your Forties, Fifties, and Beyond.”

 Since 2006, Hannon has been writing in leading publications about “Second Acts,” the new careers that many of us are launching in our later years.  Hannon knows as much about this trend as anyone around. And, while she certainly understands the data on jobs trends, she developed much of her understanding firsthand, through hundreds of interviews with people, aged 40 to 70+, who have made big shifts in their work lives.

In “What Next?” Hannon offers portraits of 17 people who have chosen new paths.  For example, there’s Ken Rynne, a Washington energy lawyer who decided to live his dream and become a professional performer.  He launched Planet Washington, a rollicking musical act featuring timely political satire.  And there’s a clinical nurse who opened a knitting store, an AT&T executive who became an Episcopal priest, and a former IT specialist who is now a licensed acupuncture therapist specializing in fertility issues

Kerry Hannon with Zena
Kerry Hannon with Zena.

 The individual profiles are both inspiring and instructional, but the book is made even richer by Hannon’s insights, lists of resources, and specific advice about how to change your career.  And, while the book’s personal stories tend to involve people who are reinventing their work lives to pursue new passions or long-held dreams, the book is a useful guide for anybody considering a significant job shift.

 While Hannon touches upon everything from the value of volunteering to the ABCs of franchising, one theme she emphasizes is the power of networking.  She points out that the years you’ve spent years building up a circle of contacts can translate into a rich opportunity.

 I also particularly like Hannon’s suggestion that you prepare for your transition with a three-part fitness program: [Read more…] about If you’re wondering “what’s next?”

Filed Under: Career management, career transitions, encore careers, Uncategorized Tagged With: career transitions, changing your life, second acts

Tips on enjoying your career until 80 and beyond

Posted by Beverly Jones on August 12, 2013

 

Thinking about your future career?

Consider tips from this artist, at 92.

When I’m contemplating yet another phase of my career, I tend to look around everywhere for examples of success.  I’ve found it pays to identify people who are doing things well.  I ask myself, “What’s helping them succeed?  What are they doing that’s better than what I do?”

 These days I’m learning a lot from people far younger than I am.  I’m working to pick up their ease with technology, social media and entrepreneurship. 

Yet at the same time, I’m gathering pointers on graceful aging from folks who are ahead of me on the path.  And I’m lucky.  At 92, my mother, Lorna Jones, is a tiny dynamo.  She is energetic, independent and thriving as a painter.  And she models how we can enjoy work, and life, for decades to come. [Read more…] about Tips on enjoying your career until 80 and beyond

Filed Under: career resilience, career transitions, encore careers, positivity Tagged With: career transitions, encore careers, second acts

Create boundaries, yet go with the flow

Posted by Beverly Jones on May 23, 2013

Nurture your career with

lessons from gardeners

Early in my career as a lawyer and corporate exec, I thought I could do it all.  I worked long hours at the office or on the road.  And often in my free time I worked in the garden.  The opportunities seemed vast, and I hustled after them.

But then I noticed I had a perfect setting for a great life, but was working too hard to enjoy that life.   Too often work consumed most of my time.  And the garden started to feel like one more responsibility that was just a little too big. 

So I decided to try another approach.  I took early retirement from my “big” job then began creating a career as an executive and transitions coach.  I was determined to shape a work life that was engaging yet not overwhelming.  At first I directed most of my new-found free time to the garden.  But soon my landscaping plans grew to big for my energy and my resources.  And once again I learned that too much of a good thing can be, well… just too much.

It’s taken a while, but now I feel like I have a nice balance in my career,  in my garden, in my life.   My garden adventures have taught me some things about creating boundaries yet going with the flow. 

This week I shared some of my career lessons from the garden on the PBS website NextAvenue.org  I hope you enjoy my article!

 

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Our dogs in the garden at Buckeye Farm

 

 

Filed Under: Career management, career transitions, finding new energy Tagged With: career transitions, gardening, leisure time, life balance, second acts

Wondering about your next act? Ask: who needs something?

Posted by Beverly Jones on April 4, 2013

 Gen. Robert E. Lee,

higher ed innovator,

 inspires encore careers

Has the tumultuous job market got you fretting about what to do next?  You’re not alone.  And among the folks wondering about their next career are millions of Baby Boomers.  Many don’t plan on early retirement, but they worry age discrimination or technological shifts might block their way to a new phase. 

Now me, I’m an optimist.  Not only have I weathered several reinventions, but through my work as an executive coach I have a close-up view of people finding satisfying second and third acts.  I was contemplating the new phenomenon of encore careers a few months ago, when we visited Washington and Lee University in Lexington, Virginia.  

As I mused, we wandered into the lovely Lee Chapel & Museum, where we saw the office in which Gen. Robert E. Lee actually worked during his last years.  It struck me that encore careers aren’t all that new, and Gen. Lee is a fine example of how reinvention is possible no matter how badly your current career may end.  [Read more…] about Wondering about your next act? Ask: who needs something?

Filed Under: Career management, career resilience, encore careers Tagged With: career transitions, encore careers, second acts

The things you do in your free time can inspire your career

Posted by Beverly Jones on March 14, 2013

Lessons from yoga helped me

become more entrepreneurial

When clients are feeling blocked in their jobs, I encourage them to think about ways to bring change not just to their work lives, but to the other parts of their lives as well. And often when they do take up new interests it can inspire an energy boost and a fresh perspective in their career.

In my case, I started yoga lessons soon after leaving the corporate world and starting my business as an executive coach and consultant. Recently I wrote an article for NextAvenue.org describing how yoga helped my career transition. Please continue reading here.

 

For more about how leisure activity helped me shape my career, see this post on career lessons from the garden.

Filed Under: career transitions, encore careers, entrepreneurship, personal growth, yoga Tagged With: career transitions, changing your life, entrepreneurship, yoga

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