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Does leading a committee make you feel like you’re herding cats?

Posted by Beverly Jones on April 22, 2014

Number 207

Much of the work getting done in today's organizations comes from team efforts. But whether you're guiding a routine project group or acting as counsel to a blue ribbon panel, leading folks who don't report to you can be frustrating.

Sherry Little, a founding partner at the infrastructure firm Spartan Solutions, knows that leading across functional and organizational lines can feel like herding cats. But, she says, it's amazing what can be accomplished when you learn how to build and manage diverse teams.

Little's company develops and administers large infrastructure projects, which often means fostering public-private partnerships to build things like subway systems, trolley lines, or ferries. Little learned political skills as a senior staffer in the Senate, where crafting transportation legislation required negotiating across party lines. Later, before the formation of Spartan in 2009, Little led the U.S. Department of Transportation's Federal Transit Administration.

When I asked her to share her favorite strategies for building an effective team, Little offered four tips:

  • Start strong. The first meeting of a new group sets the tone for the future. Not only should an initial meeting be smoothly organized, but also it should be structured so that every member leaves with a clear idea of the group's mission.
  • Allocate tasks. Make sure every member of the work group is given something specific to do, even if it's minimal. When people don't have at least small assignments, they are more likely to sit back and criticize.
  • Track action items. Whether an elected secretary prepares formal minutes, or participants take turns emailing timely informal notes, it's vital to keep track of action items and group decisions. All assignments should be put in writing, to keep members accountable and on the same page.
  • Explain decisions. Even if you have broad authority, in a collaborative group you, the leader, should listen to everybody's views. Then, once you decide upon a course of action, explain the reasoning behind your decision. Little says it's particularly important to describe how you took contrary opinions into account. When team members understand and respect the process, they will feel valued. And, Little says, they'll be more likely to go along with your decision this time, and to participate positively in the next debate.

As Little illustrates, committee and team management requires a mix of, first, strong organizational skills, and, second, softer skills, like recognizing what each person needs and wants. This set of three questions, that I call the Herding Cats Triangle, can help you define and implement your committee leadership strategy:

  1. What's the mission? It's important for all participants to understand why the group exists. That doesn't mean that goals can't evolve over time, but the members must always have a shared, clear view of their purpose and responsibilities. If the committee or team is part of a larger organization, be sure your activities are consistent with the bigger vision.
  2. Who are the stakeholders and what do they need? As a starting point, learn as much as possible about each group member, including what they want out of group membership, and what interest sector they might represent. The more you know about needs and interests of participants, the easier it will be for you to foster collaboration and compromise. Beyond the immediate participants, think about the interests of other stakeholders, because they have the potential to offer support or limit your progress. Regularly consider whether additional groups and individuals might be interested in or impacted by the group's activities.
  3. Are the right meeting logistics in place? Running effective meetings is a big part of your job as leader. These points can help you draft your committee meeting checklist:
  • What’s the point? Before you send out invitations, be clear about your goals in calling a specific meeting.
  • Have an agenda. A written list of discussion items helps to keep meetings on target. Particularly if a session involves complex issues or requires preparation, send out the agenda in advance. You can structure participation not only by delegating agenda items but also by suggesting time limits for each item.
  • Shape it. Even informal meetings should have a structure, including at least:
    • An opening, in which you, the leader, state the purpose and the desired outcome,
    • A middle, in which discussion moves each agenda item at least a baby step forward, and
    • A closing, when you may sum up the conclusions, action items and assignments, and perhaps mention additional next steps.
  • Set it up. For a successful meeting, you may have to be assertive about sending invitations and reminding participants of the details. Even if it’s a regular meeting and everybody knows the drill, specify the date, day, time and place. Remind invitees at least once again, at the last minute. And if you’re using email for invitations or reminders, put the details in the subject line.
  • Warm it up. There’s a legitimate social component to many meetings, and you may better achieve your goals if all participants feel engaged and comfortable about offering comments. You can address some social needs and establish a cordial mood for the event by devoting the first five or ten minutes to a warm-up phase, in which everyone is invited to offer information, suggestions or concerns. This can be as simple as brief introductions, or you might request one-minute answers to a question like: “What is your most important current project?”
  • Be on time. Invitees will behave more responsibly if they know that your meetings start and end on schedule.
  • Set the tone. Treat all participants with courtesy, give speakers your full attention and don’t work on other projects while the meeting is going on. If you have trouble staying focused, try taking notes of the discussion.
  • Keep track. Every meeting needs to have someone designated to keep a record, at least of key conclusions and assignments.
  • Say “thanks.” Show that you genuinely appreciate participation, and thank people for their contributions. Thank everybody at the close of the meeting.
  • Follow it up. After the meeting, see that both participants and invitees who couldn’t attend get a copy of the notes. Be sure that assignees have everything they need and are moving forward on their tasks. If nothing seems to come of your meetings, people will lose interest and stop taking them seriously.
  • Set the rules. Meetings will flow more smoothly if everybody understands the ground rules. Consider building a consensus on matters like:
    • Attendance
    • Promptness
    • Participation
    • Cell phones or other interruptions
    • Confidentiality.
    • Shake it up. If you chair a regular meeting, look for ways to vary the routine. If you change the pattern, new people may speak up, new ideas may emerge, and the discussion won’t feel so stale. Consider:
      • Special refreshments.
      • A change of venue, ranging from a festive or informal setting when it’s time to celebrate, to site visits that allow participants to focus on specific issues.
      • Outside speakers, including experts invited to share special knowledge, or consultants asked to express messages that you can’t or don’t want to deliver.


    Herding kittens. Photo credit by Fotolia.

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    If you’re wondering “what’s next?”

    Posted by Beverly Jones on April 10, 2014

    Ready for a career shift?

    Read Kerry Hannon’s tips.

     Are you thinking about a launching a new career, but don’t know where to start?  Then here’s good news.  Acclaimed journalist Kerry Hannon has just released a revised paperback edition of her book, “What’s Next? – Finding Your Passion and Your Dream Job in Your Forties, Fifties, and Beyond.”

     Since 2006, Hannon has been writing in leading publications about “Second Acts,” the new careers that many of us are launching in our later years.  Hannon knows as much about this trend as anyone around. And, while she certainly understands the data on jobs trends, she developed much of her understanding firsthand, through hundreds of interviews with people, aged 40 to 70+, who have made big shifts in their work lives.

    In “What Next?” Hannon offers portraits of 17 people who have chosen new paths.  For example, there’s Ken Rynne, a Washington energy lawyer who decided to live his dream and become a professional performer.  He launched Planet Washington, a rollicking musical act featuring timely political satire.  And there’s a clinical nurse who opened a knitting store, an AT&T executive who became an Episcopal priest, and a former IT specialist who is now a licensed acupuncture therapist specializing in fertility issues

    Kerry Hannon with Zena
    Kerry Hannon with Zena.

     The individual profiles are both inspiring and instructional, but the book is made even richer by Hannon’s insights, lists of resources, and specific advice about how to change your career.  And, while the book’s personal stories tend to involve people who are reinventing their work lives to pursue new passions or long-held dreams, the book is a useful guide for anybody considering a significant job shift.

     While Hannon touches upon everything from the value of volunteering to the ABCs of franchising, one theme she emphasizes is the power of networking.  She points out that the years you’ve spent years building up a circle of contacts can translate into a rich opportunity.

     I also particularly like Hannon’s suggestion that you prepare for your transition with a three-part fitness program: [Read more…] about If you’re wondering “what’s next?”

    Filed Under: Career management, career transitions, encore careers, Uncategorized Tagged With: career transitions, changing your life, second acts

    Ready to reinvent your career? Or to pursue a long-held dream?

    Posted by Beverly Jones on April 8, 2014

    Number 206

    Here's some good news for people who are thinking about finding a new kind of career path. Acclaimed journalist Kerry Hannon has just updated and released a revised paperback edition of her book, "What's Next? - Finding Your Passion and Your Dream Job in Your Forties, Fifties, and Beyond."

    In "What Next?," Hannon offers portraits of 17 people who have chosen new paths. For example, there’s Ken Rynne, a Washington energy lawyer who decided to live his dream and become a professional performer. He launched Planet Washington, a rollicking musical act featuring timely political satire.

    And there’s a clinical nurse who opened a knitting store, an AT&T executive who became an Episcopal priest, and a former IT expert who is now a licensed acupuncture therapist specializing in fertility and women’s health issues.

    The individual profiles are both inspiring and instructional, but the book is made even richer by Hannon’s insights, lists of resources, and specific advice about how to change your career. And, while the book’s personal stories tend to involve people who are reinventing their work lives to pursue new passions or long-held dreams, the book is a useful guide for anybody considering a significant job shift.

    While she touches upon everything from finding a mentor to understanding franchises, I particularly like Hannon’s suggestion that you prepare for your transition with a three-part fitness program:

    • Get financially fit, by charting a budget, socking away an emergency fund, boosting your credit rating and downsizing your lifestyle.
    • Get physically fit, because being in shape and energetic matters in the work world.
    • Get spiritually fit, by finding a space – perhaps through meditation -- where you can get away from the stress and fears that go hand in hand with making changes in your life.

    I asked Hannon about what was in her mind, as she edited the 2010 edition to bring it up to date. She said when she started her first “Second Acts” column in 2006, she was fascinated by how many people forge an encore career because they want to get excited about work again and make a difference in the world. Today, however, it seems that a higher percentage of second actors are motivated at least in part by economic necessity. They are planning on working well past their expected retirement age because they need the money.

    People contemplate shifting gears for many reasons. Perhaps you’re tired of working for a big organization and itching to try something entrepreneurial. Or maybe you want to re-deploy your business skills to make a contribution in the non-profit sector. Regardless of your motivation, if you’re contemplating a mid-life reboot, “What’s Next?” can offer you a handy road map for getting started.

    MESSAGE FROM BEV: LET’S STAY CONNECTED. If you’d like to have an issue addressed, send me an email so I can explore it in this eZine or my blog. And let’s be cool careerists and stay in touch through Social Media. Please Follow me on Twitter and connect with me on LinkedIn.

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    Bored at work? Make new choices!

    Posted by Beverly Jones on March 29, 2014

    Boredom isn’t productive.

    So make some changes!

    As I waited in a Post Office line, I watched the clerk.  She looked to be so deep into the doldrums that she could barely hear her customers. It seemed that, when she finally took in a request, she’d move in slow motion, lethargically searching through stacks of paper with her eyes half closed and her mouth half open.

    As the minutes ticked on, I became annoyed.  Then I thought, “Oh, I’d hate to have her job.”  So I was feeling more empathetic when it was finally my turn.  By then, nobody was behind me in line, so I engaged her in conversation. 

    I said I needed to mail my passport for renewal, and led her into a discussion about the safest way to send it.  I made a big deal about my worries, and soon she was lending me a pen and making gentle fun of my concerns.  And we were laughing together. 

    The clerk may have been overwhelmed by the monotony of her job.  But she seemed to wake up when she connected with, and focused on the needs of, another person.  Shifting your attention to somebody else’s problems is a classic way to beat back boredom.

    Photo of boards, by JMcreation_Fotolia.com
    Photo of boards, by JMcreation_Fotolia.com

    You know what it’s like to feel bored, don’t you?  When nothing seems challenging, and gradually you feel less and less creative?  When you’re bored, you might be keeping busy, and yet you’re not getting enough stimulation to stay interested.

    On the job, unproductive boredom seems to be the opposite of what psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi has called “flow.” You’re in flow when your work is so absorbing you lose track of time. It’s like you are playing a game that is so much fun you forget about everything else.

    Csikszentmihalyi, who has been studying the satisfying flow state for decades, describes it as a time when “action follows upon action according to an internal logic that seems to need no conscious intervention by the actor.”

    You are more likely to find yourself in flow, and not bored, when: [Read more…] about Bored at work? Make new choices!

    Filed Under: professional growth, Uncategorized, workplace issues Tagged With: beating boredom, personal growth

    Boredom is no fun & it’s bad for business. But you can fight back!

    Posted by Beverly Jones on March 25, 2014

    Number 205

    Some people are less than productive because they suffer from chronic stress. Perhaps, throughout each workday, they are bombarded with difficult requests and demands from bosses, customers and colleagues.

    But other low achievers may have a different kind of problem. They experience too few challenges. Nothing exciting happens in the course of a day, and they feel less and less creative. Even if they’re busy, these folks aren’t getting enough stimulation to stay interested. They are bored.

    On the job, unproductive boredom seems to be the opposite of what psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi has called “flow.” You’re in flow when your work is so absorbing you lose track of time. It’s like you are playing a game that is so much fun you forget about everything else.

    Csikszentmihalyi, who has been studying the satisfying flow state for decades, describes it as a time when “action follows upon action according to an internal logic that seems to need no conscious intervention by the actor.”

    You are more likely to find yourself in flow, and not at all bored, when:

    • Your skills match the level of the challenges you face. Tasks that are too easy are boring, while those that are too difficult may lead to anxiety.
    • Something about the work is intrinsically rewarding.
    • You have clear goals. And,
    • You have some sense of control over the situation and the outcome.

    Are you finding your job to be tedious? If so, don’t wait to be rescued. Do something about it. Maybe it’s time to shake things up, but in a good way, with anti-boredom strategies like these:

    • Create challenges. If your work doesn’t feel stimulating, find ways to enrich it with new levels of complexity and challenge. Try creating games as you pursue tedious tasks. One study reported that long-distance truck drivers who played mental games, like counting passing objects, reported little boredom and were also safer drivers. Sometimes you can pep things up by seeing how fast you can race through tiresome activities.
    • Engage with others. Particularly for extroverts, isolation can feel boring. Look for opportunities to broaden your circle and interact with others. And, wherever you are, take the time to really focus on the people around you. Csikszentmihalyi suggests that a retail clerk might make her work more interesting, and at the same time improve service, by striking up genuine conversations with customers.
    • Vary your routines. Make an effort to shift your habitual patterns. Flow is associated with exploration, and even simple changes can make you feel more alive. Try new ways of doing your projects, look for new tools or systems, and rearrange your schedule. If you don’t know what to do, just try something different. And maybe it’s time to plan an adventure vacation? Or at least a special lunch?
    • Learn something. Research suggests that being in flow helps us forge new neural connections. And it works both ways. If you regularly learn new things, you are less likely to be bored. So take a class or pick up a skill. Even if you’re studying something not directly related to your job, it can help you become more alert and innovative.
    • Hang out with do-ers. Boredom can be contagious, and if you spend time with passive, disengaged people you may start to feel the same way. Look for opportunities to be with active people. You’ll feel more stimulated if your life includes folks who pursue worthwhile, interesting activities.
    • Exercise. Get up and move around at the office, walk as often as you can, and build regular exercise into your life. People who are physically active are less likely to bog down in ennui.
    • Journal. You are more likely to feel bored if you lack self-awareness and tend to be out of touch with your own emotional state. Writing about your thoughts, observations and activities can help you to develop emotional intelligence. The more you notice each day, the more interesting your life may become.

    Everybody has dull tasks and uneventful days. But if you frequently feel jaded, maybe it’s time to kick yourself into a new gear?

    MESSAGE FROM BEV: So what bugs you the most? If you’d like me to address a career-related issue, send it along in an email and there's a good chance I'll explore it in this eZine or my blog. And let’s be cool careerists and stay in touch through Social Media. Please Follow me on Twitter and connect with me on LinkedIn.

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    Self-growth tips from a great American coach – Ben Franklin

    Posted by Beverly Jones on March 20, 2014

    Want to be better person?

    Learn from Ben Franklin!

     I love sitting in a train compartment, sipping a glass of wine and glancing at the scenery as we read or chat.  So a while back I felt mellow, as my husband and I rode the Amtrak Capitol Limited from Washington to Chicago. 

     We sat reading in bed as the train traveled through Pennsylvania. Along the way, I was reminded that the Keystone State was the adopted home of one of our most intriguing Founding Fathers, Benjamin Franklin.

     Moving from Kindle to paper, I jumped around my reading stack, from a self-help book, to periodicals, to a novel.  In that brief time, I happened to come across three references to Franklin.   

    Benjamin Franklin free image via Wikipedia.org
    Benjamin Franklin free image via Wikipedia.org

    For me, Franklin was an important influence, not so much for his great historic contributions but because of how he coached himself into living a successful life.  As a kid, I read his autobiography, where he described his youthful efforts to become a man who would do well by doing good.  Riding in the train, I recalled that book, and the “aha” moment when I realized we can shape ourselves into the kind of people we want to be.

    One way Franklin helped form the national character was through that posthumously published memoir.  He said he wrote it to teach Americans how to grow into their full potential.  In his view, practice and a little help from our friends can make us better, more successful people.  [Read more…] about Self-growth tips from a great American coach – Ben Franklin

    Filed Under: Ben Franklin, personal growth, self improvement Tagged With: changing your life, New Year's Resolutions, personal growth

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