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Dear Friends and Clients, My client – let’s call her “Mary” -- complained that she was feeling unproductive and was too frustrated to do anything about it. Things at work were a little crazy because of circumstances far beyond Mary’s control. She was being asked to share the load of a colleague regarded as a slacker, and she expected that her achievements might not be recognized. I could understand why Mary felt resentful and I wasn’t surprised to hear that she didn’t feel motivated to do her best work. Mary was in a classic downward spiral. Because of difficult circumstances at the office, she felt disorganized and justified in not working hard. Then the guilt set in. She didn’t sleep well, and things went from bad to worse. I expressed sympathy about the challenges Mary faced, but my next move was to kick her into action. In the short term, Mary couldn’t change her work environment, but she could reverse the negative spiral by taking steps that might bring back her sense of achievement. At one level, what Mary wanted was a white knight to ride in, right some wrongs, and rescue her from a difficult situation. She recognized, however, that the more realistic option was to quit whining and take steps to become her own white knight. In this issue I’ll talk about some techniques we can use when, like Mary, we want to rescue ourselves from downward spirals. Warmly, Bev |
Try These Techniques For Breaking an Unproductive Pattern |
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October 16th, 2007 * Number 69 |
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| Our work lives tend to play out in cycles. For a long time things may move along smoothly, but then sooner or later we find ourselves bogged down in a period of low energy and negativity.
We all have moments of feeling lazy, non-productive or flat out of good ideas. And sometimes we may even find ourselves in seriously difficult situations. You can’t avoid having some down times, but you may dramatically improve your career if you learn to dig yourself out of your own holes. If you want to launch a more positive and productive cycle in your career, try some of these techniques:
Want to Read More About Breaking Negative Cycles?
Many of the strategies discussed in this issue are described at greater length in the newsletter archive on Bev’s website. Also on her site are reviews of helpful books and links to Amazon.com. If you buy any book by entering Amazon.com through Bev’s site it will contribute to the cost of distributing Bev’s Tips, and be much appreciated. |
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Bev’s Tips for a Better Work Life is published on the first and third Tuesday of each month by Beverly E. Jones of ClearWays Consulting, LLC. Bev is a lawyer and former executive who now coaches accomplished executives and other professionals to bring new direction, energy and enjoyment to their work lives.
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