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Dear Friends and Clients,

There was a time when Ted Leonsis was best known in Washington for his leadership at America Online. But these days he is a big player in professional sports, known as the guy who engineered the turnaround of the Capitals hockey franchise.

Born to parents of limited means and education, Leonsis worked his way through Georgetown University. There he became interested computers, and by the age of 27 he was able to sell his first computer-related company for $60 million. Leonsis became a highly successful serial entrepreneur, and most recently he has been in the news for attempting to take over the Washington Wizards.

As he explains in his book, “The Business of Happiness,” Leonsis has a lot to be happy about. But happiness is not something he has taken for granted. He had a “reckoning” at the age of 28, when traveling on a plane that went through preparations for a crash landing. While negotiating with God about how he would be a better man if permitted to survive, Leonsis says, he realized that he wasn’t happy, and that happiness requires more than being rich.

Since then, while building companies and fostering charities, he has worked hard to achieve and understand happiness. As he describes in the book that is half autobiography, half how-to guide, Leonsis “has actively, consciously, managed (his) quest.” Since the 1980s, he has read reports from neuroscientists, and just about everything else he could find on the topic of happiness.

Leonsis says that he also has closely observed his many friends and acquaintances. “There are those I believe to be happy, and those I believe who aren’t, and it is always my preference to spend more time with the former than the latter. Among my happy friends, I’ve tried determining what exactly makes them so,” he says. There are also happy companies, he says, and happy organizations tend to be successful.

John Buckley, who worked with Leonsis as AOL’s top communications executive, is co-author of the book. I asked Buckley about the impact that Leonsis’ theories have had on his co-workers and organizations. He said, “Ted's personality had an enormous impact on his colleagues, in many ways. His ‘Life List’ was something he talked about, urging all of us to organize ourselves around our life goals.”

Buckley says, “I've become a big believer in his theories on happiness, and now tend to look at the world through that prism. I find myself now evaluating situations through Ted's happiness tenets -- and they really work!” In this issue I will describe a few of Leonsis’ “secrets to extraordinary success in work and life,” and I hope that they may work for you.

Warm Wishes, Bev


Manage Your Happiness --
It’s Good For Business

February 16th, 2010 * Number 120

Ted Leonsis believes “that happiness can be achieved by approaching it with the same degree of discipline and rigor that’s needed to build a successful business.” And some of the same rules for individuals also apply to institutions. His very readable book “The Business of Happiness,” relies on three concepts:

  • Pursue goals. You increase your chances of becoming happy if you treat happiness like an entrepreneur would approach building a business, with a vision and the systematic pursuit of a plan and goals.

  • Take care of business. Leonsis argues that enterprises will do better if they consider themselves in “the happiness business.”

  • Start with happiness. “Happiness is a driver of success, not the other way around,” Leonsis says.
Leonsis believes that the happiest and most successful people live by several basic tenets, including:
  • Set life goals. People are more likely to be happy if they pay attention to whether they are on track to reach their goals. Leonsis said that writing and pursuing his “Life List” – the goals he wanted to accomplish in his life – did not by themselves make him happy. Yet he credits the writing of that list and his “dogged, faithful effort to accomplish” those goals as a necessary aspect of his quest for happiness. He advises the rest of us to, “Just write the list. Start now.”

  • Connect with communities. Leonsis says that the more communities in which you are an active participant, the more likely it is that you’ll be happy and successful. In his own life, he has encountered opportunities and fostered innovation because of the broad variety of circles within which he circulates. “I work it,” he says of his “ever-expanding universe of interests and friends and communities.” Leonsis is a conspicuous extrovert, but he says that the same rule applies to introverts.

  • Say thanks. Like many of the experts, Leonsis says that a critical ingredient in finding happiness is being able to express gratitude. Feeling thankful helps us to stay grounded and is a way to arrest the harmful domino effect of a bad day becoming a bad week. And, he says, “empathy, gratitude, giving back to society, and having a higher calling are all part of a continuum.”
Leonsis’ secrets of success aren’t original, but they all make sense to me. His own story is engaging, and his book is an enjoyable starting point for exploring strategies that may feel new to readers who aren’t already self-help fans.

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Bev’s Tips for a Better Work Life is published on the first and third Tuesday of each month by Beverly E. Jones of ClearWays Consulting, LLC. Bev is a lawyer and former executive who now coaches accomplished executives and other professionals to bring new direction, energy and enjoyment to their work lives.

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