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Dear Friends and Clients, Once again this year, I spent my Spring vacation at Jack and Wendy Volhards’ annual dog training camp. It was great fun, and we particularly enjoyed working outdoors in a beautiful Shenandoah setting. We weren’t discouraged even by the sleet, rain and driving wind. One reason that the training was such fun for both dogs and handlers is that the Volhards believe that positive reinforcement is the most effective teaching tool. Their approach involves rewarding correct responses, which helps dogs stay motivated and engaged. The Volhards introduced their method, which is rooted in both canine and human psychology, during the 1970s. They were ahead of their time, since numerous recent studies demonstrate that positive reinforcement works better than punishment in inducing people, as well as dogs, to learn, change and be productive. As I wrote last year, part of the fascination of dog training is that interacting with dogs can lead to insights about how we communicate, and how we can lead people. And in this issue I’ll share additional thoughts about how the learning processes of animals can inspire us to more effective human interactions. Warm wishes, |
What Animal Training Teaches Us About Leadership and Life |
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April 15th, 2008 * Number 80 |
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| In 2006, one of most widely read and discussed columns in The New York Times was a feature by journalist Amy Sutherland entitled, “What Shamu Taught Me About A Happy Marriage.” She wrote that, while reporting on exotic animal trainers, she had a thought: What if she used these training techniques on her husband? So the next time her husband stomped angrily through the house in search of his missing keys she asked herself: What would a dolphin trainer do? Because trainers ignore dolphin behavior they don’t want, she kept her mouth shut and ignored her husband’s tantrum. Sutherland reported that her marriage steadily improved as she continued to ignore her husband’s negative behavior and found ways to reward even tiny positive steps. Her husband started treating her in the same way, and she found that the approach worked on her, too, even though she knew exactly what he was doing. Sutherland’s recent book, “What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love and Marriage,” is based on her popular column. In the book, she offers a brief, humorous, yet fascinating look at key principles of animal training that is rooted in positive reinforcement. And she talks about how she has applied the same principles in every aspect of her own life. Among other training rules, Sutherland suggests that you might want to apply these with your own family or colleagues:
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Bev’s Tips for a Better Work Life is published on the first and third Tuesday of each month by Beverly E. Jones of ClearWays Consulting, LLC. Bev is a lawyer and former executive who now coaches accomplished executives and other professionals to bring new direction, energy and enjoyment to their work lives.
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