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Beverly E. Jones
September 18, 2009
Start with Your Vision of Leadership
Leadership is like love – sometimes we know it when we see it, but it’s complex,
slippery to define and challenging to study. So if we wish to become better
leaders, we can’t simply borrow a formula from experts. Instead, each of us must
develop our own vision of what leadership looks like.
In leadership coaching, the coach asks questions intended to help the client
explore and expand his or her own definition of leadership. That vision is likely to
extend beyond management techniques because leadership isn’t only something
that we do, but actually reflects what we are.
Leadership coaching is rooted in the concept that in many respects we can
choose what we are, and what we want to become. Furthermore, when we don’t
get it right, we can always try again.
Below are more concepts that coaches may suggest as clients explore their
visions of leadership:
- Your development as a leader is tied to your development as a person.
- To lead change effectively, you must be engaged in changing yourself.
- To look like a leader in the workplace, demonstrate that you can manage
yourself. Routinely practice managing your emotions, your energy, your
- Management guru Daniel Goleman’s research demonstrated that great
leaders are distinguished from the mediocre ones by their level of
“emotional intelligence.” And the most important emotional competence is
self awareness – knowing your internal states, preferences, resources and
- Among the ways to improve self awareness are writing in a journal,
developing a meditation practice or working with a coach.
- A leader’s attitude has an enormous impact on the team. Most people are
more productive when they are around positive people.
- In the workplace, positive feedback is more effective than negative
- Even if you were born a pessimist, you can learn to be more upbeat and
- When we are mindful, we are actually listening to and focusing upon the
people around us. We feel centered, rather than bored or disconnected.
- We all engage in mindless activity, like when we’re driving our car and
realize that we can’t recall the last few miles. And we see that others are
mindless, like the guy at the meeting who is playing with his BlackBerry
instead of listening to the discussion.
- Research shows that other people can tell whether or not our state is
mindful. If our team members sense that we are present, they are more
likely to see us as genuine and charismatic leaders.
- We can encourage mindfulness in the way we frame our tasks, focus on
process instead of just on outcome, and make an effort to actively listen.
- This Japanese management term includes the idea that very small steps
can lead to sweeping change. Even if you face serious obstacles, you can
move toward big goals by starting with the tiniest imaginable steps.
- To start a big project, take just one small step forward, and then commit to
another small step every day this week. For example, you can apply
Kaizen in your personal life by launching a fitness program with just five
minutes of walking each day.
- Leadership may begin with the feeling that one wants to serve, perhaps to
help others to succeed and to grow.
- “Servant leadership” emphasizes collaboration, trust, empathy, and the
ethical use of power.
- Values such as compassion are not enough to assure successful
leadership. To achieve their goals, effective leaders develop work habits
and systems associated with productivity.
- Tools like calendars, “to-do” lists and planning forms might work well at
one stage of your career but be insufficient as you move up the hierarchy.
It is useful to periodically review our systems, and ask whether new
approaches might bring greater productivity.
- To be at their best, leaders must manage not just their time but also their
- Physical energy is linked to exercise, nutrition and stress management.
- Other sources of energy include one’s family, community and social
activity, fun, creative pursuits intellectual challenge and spiritual life.
Beverly E. Jones
Clearways Consulting LLC
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A garden at Buckeye Farm,
site of some of our retreats